A giant fucking caveat: There’s a reason I’m not calling this The Right Way to Use Your AO3 Statistics or even The Best Way to Use Your...

It's been a while since I've been around, so here's a quick list of things that've crossed through my noggin during the four months I've...

CW // reproductive rights, religious cultists, the clusterfuck that is US politics, Trumpers being wretched as per usual, police...

CW// mention of transphobia, kinkshaming, and ageism; deeper discussion of domestic abuse; manipulation; sexual exploitation of a minor I...

This isn’t going to be a huge update (update: it’s a bit longer than I thought, bc human rights) — it has been A Week — and, in fact, I...

2020, seriously, calm down, bruh. You’ve gotta stop. The last few days can pretty much be explained in the following: My initial...

Although I’ve written about being a Reylo here before, I don’t think I’ve actually written about intra-fandom discourse...

Hello my loves! I haven’t updated this blog in a while because honestly, it was an all-consuming spring into summer (as I’m sure you’ve...

Endings and beginnings have always seemed indistinguishable to me. A doorway is the same no matter which side you look at it; the only...

And I thought spring of 2019 was bonkers. COVID-19 was on my radar the last time I posted an entry here, but it wasn’t the kind of thing...

A kinky dating update and all kinds of flogalicious goodness as I try making my own DIY impact toy: the beloved flogger!

Holy hotness, Batman, that was one hell of a Saturday night!! Ya bissh is back in full force when it comes to IRL kinkery 💋

I should’ve been finished with a new I’ll Show You Mine update by now. The chapter I’ve plotted out in heckn sizzling...

Grief, cancer, & Ben Solo. Major TROS spoilers ahead, darlings, so watch out!

What a crazy year this has been, darlings, from making so many pretty plans in January to seeing them derailed by that c*nt cancer!

Hey there, sexy Internet — long time no see! Typing’s become a bit tricky since February, so I’ll try to keep this brief...

Today’s story, kiddos, is about pain. As a masochist, I’m not unaccustomed to pain. Hell, I seek it out — but only under informed,...

It’s Saturday night and I’m appropriately adult beverage’d up, which means it’s time for Elegy Goldsmith, submissive of 6+ years to tell...

Full disclosure: I was really looking forward to this one. Interviewing Master about how we met was WAY too awesome of an opportunity to...

It was an interesting day, to say the least. Things I expected to accomplish: writing a post for today about transformation, grinding...