On Kinky Dating

Our relationship shouldn’t have worked.

We met at the worst possible time: as my first relationship was tanking harder than a Winston main. I was closer to thirty than twenty, and about as many pounds from my goal weight (still am), with undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to boot.

And yet, five months later we were engaged. Three months after that we got married more and more than five years since we met online, we’re still bonkers in love and screwing like bun-buns.

Everyone deserves to be as happy as we are — and to that end, in these blogs I’m gonna let it all hang out and talk about how two geeky kinksters made it work. Relationships shouldn’t be an obstacle course; they’re adventures to be embarked on with a wholehearted partner (or partners!) who cares as much for you as you do for them.

So as the veteran of a whole bunch of unsuccessful relationship and one that’s my happily every after (plus some awesome play partners), come on in and take a peek at the world of kinky dating IRL!

xoxo,

Elegy